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鈥淭he culture of the holidays is about consumption,鈥� Meehan said. 鈥淓ating habits change and people drink more alcohol than they normally would. Even though it feels good at the time, over the course of days or weeks, it starts to take a toll,鈥� Meehan said.

When it comes to exercise, moving just a little can go a long way. Research shows a 15-minute walk, especially earlier in the day when the sun is out, sets you up for a better day and a better night鈥檚 sleep. But cooking a meal or tidying up to get ready for guests also counts too.聽

That doesn鈥檛 mean you can鈥檛 spend some time on the couch. But try to add some movement to your day too.聽

鈥淚t鈥檚 totally fine to snuggle up on the couch and have a hot chocolate and watch a great movie, especially if you鈥檙e surrounded by family and friends,鈥� Zablah said. 鈥淏ut if it's been four hours and you haven't left the couch, then you want to consider doing something different.鈥�

Stay as close to your daily routine as possible

Traveling, visiting family and shopping disrupt routines, adding stress and making it even harder to maintain healthy eating and sleeping habits. Meehan and Zablah recommend keeping as close to your regular schedule as possible, especially if you have children. Being as consistent as possible helps everyone.聽

鈥淲hat we practice becomes automatic, particularly the things we enjoy. And once formed, habits are stubborn. They are simple to repeat and difficult to replace. So occasional indulgences like staying up late are perfectly fine, but doing it every day can be disruptive down the road,鈥� Meehan said.聽聽

Limit phone use to be as present-centered as possible

You don鈥檛 have to totally disconnect from your phone, but spending less time on it allows you to enjoy the present moment without distraction.

鈥淓very moment that we鈥檙e spending on our phones is a moment that we鈥檙e not spending with our loved ones,鈥� Meehan said.聽聽

At night, Zablah recommends putting your phone in another room to charge or on a piece of furniture that鈥檚 far away from your bed so you aren鈥檛 tempted to look at it.

鈥淭hat gives you five extra minutes to do some breathing exercises or meditation. For folks who are religious, that could be a good time to engage in contemplative prayer. All of these things are going to set you up for a better night鈥檚 sleep,鈥� she said.

Be intentional about social media use

Social media can be used to establish and strengthen real connections, but mindlessly doomscrolling can add to stress. Zablah recommends using the settings on your phone to limit the amount of time you spend.聽

鈥淚t鈥檚 a good reminder of how much time you've devoted to that particular activity that could have been spent doing something more positive, whether it is connecting with your family members who are there or making your bed or getting more sleep,鈥� she said.聽

鈥淚f you鈥檙e really curious, then you can always go back into the feed and see what was going on last week,鈥� Meehan said.

Remember what we have in common

Getting together with family can be enriching, but it can also reopen old arguments or tensions, political or otherwise. A lot of it comes down to expectations going in. If we鈥檙e bracing for conflict, we may tighten up. If we鈥檙e hoping for connection, we might notice different parts of the interaction.

It can be helpful to pay attention to what feels shared or familiar, even when disagreements happen. Other times, stepping away for a minute can give everyone a little breathing room.聽

There isn鈥檛 one 鈥榬ight鈥� way to handle these moments, according to Meehan. These are options, each with their own pros and cons. The idea is that by noticing those options, people can choose whatever approach feels most in line with their needs, limits, and hopes for the holiday.

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