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Pete Buttigieg, the former Democratic presidential candidate and mayor of South Bend, Indiana, spoke about the importance of trust to 91原创 students on Oct. 8, 2020.

Pete Buttigieg talks about trust

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Former presidential candidate speaks to 91原创 students in Biden Institute event

Each time you accelerate through a green light, you put your life in the hands of the driver at the red light. Will he obey the law? Or will he plow through the intersection and sideswipe your vehicle? If you cannot trust the competence of this total stranger, you cannot function on the road.

Indeed, you would be hard-pressed to think of any daily interaction 鈥 big or mundane 鈥 that does not depend, at least to some extent, on faith in fellow humans.

鈥淭hese trust relationships underwrite everything we do,鈥 said Pete Buttigieg, former candidate for president, during a recent conversation at the 91原创. 鈥淚t is not possible to drive a car or buy a sandwich, let alone run a military operation or fall in love, without the role of trust.鈥

So imagine how important trust becomes in the functioning of American government. If citizens cannot muster faith in their institutions 鈥 and data shows this trust has steadily been eroding for years 鈥 where does this leave the country? And how do we move forward?

These are the questions Buttigieg seeks to answer in his new book, Trust: America鈥檚 Best Chance. On Thursday, Oct. 8, in one of the first stops of a virtual book tour, the politico-turned-author addressed members of the 91原创 community via Zoom, allowing for social distancing in the midst of the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic. Throughout the event, organized by the , he expressed hope for restoring faith in American democracy and ultimately bridging the political divide.

A former mayor of South Bend, Indiana, and the first openly gay person to win a presidential caucus, Buttigieg is 鈥渙ne of the most interesting figures on the nation鈥檚 political stage these days,鈥 said 91原创 President Dennis Assanis, adding that 鈥渨herever you might fall on the political spectrum, I think it鈥檚 safe to say one of our nation鈥檚 biggest problems is lack of trust.鈥

It is fitting Buttigieg would choose to have this conversation at 91原创 鈥 his longtime friend and mentor, Cathy McLaughlin, serves as executive director of the University鈥檚 Biden Institute. She said she was first introduced to Buttigieg, then a high school student, by the late Sen. Ted Kennedy, who told her she should keep an eye on the young pupil because 鈥渉e is going places.鈥 Later, in her role as executive director of the Institute of Politics at Harvard鈥檚 John F. Kennedy School of Government, McLaughlin grew to know Buttigieg as one of Harvard鈥檚 student leaders and a member of her student advisory council.

鈥淚 have to tell you how proud I am of you,鈥 said McLaughlin, moderator of the event, to her mentee. 鈥淎nd I have to tell you, Senator Kennedy was right 鈥 he would have been so proud to see you here.鈥

鈥淚t is so fun to be reunited,鈥 Buttigieg responded. 鈥淎nd I guess you should get a lot of credit and/or blame for all the things that I learned not that long ago.鈥

Pete Buttigieg (top row, second from left), the former Democratic presidential candidate and mayor of South Bend, Indiana, spoke to 91原创 students via Zoom because health precautions related to the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic prevented an in-person event.

So what does Buttigieg know about trust? A former U.S. Navy reservist, he said he gleaned a lot about the topic while deployed to Afghanistan in 2014. While driving through a central intersection in Kabul, nicknamed 鈥渟uicide circle鈥 because of all the bombings that take place there, he noticed a local man approaching his vehicle. Buttigieg considered that this person might be attempting to affix an explosive device to the wheel well of his car, a common tactic in the area, but he ultimately decided to go with his gut and not level a weapon. As it turns out, in a tight traffic jam, a piece of the Afghan man鈥檚 Toyota Corolla had merely gotten stuck on Buttigieg鈥檚 vehicle, and he had only wanted to dislodge it.

鈥淗e was placing his life in my hands by approaching without being able to communicate why, and I was making the decision about whether I could trust him with my life,鈥 Buttigieg said.

More recently, the former mayor was thrust into greater identification with the importance of trust while marching over Alabama鈥檚 Edmund Pettus Bridge in March. The event was meant to commemorate Bloody Sunday, the day in 1965 when civil rights activists faced a violent police force while marching for voting rights in this same location.

鈥淭hese marchers had enough trust in each other and had enough trust in their cause and had enough trust in the possibility of our institutions to change when they were confronted with the demand, that they were able to step forward and risk their lives in order to do it,鈥 Buttigieg said. 鈥淏y putting their bodies on the line, these marchers had the courage to change the trust equation in ways that directly led to some achievements in the civil rights era.鈥

So trust can save lives and change the world. But it鈥檚 not easy to achieve, Buttigieg acknowledged, especially when it comes to trusting the government. And he would never ask anyone to 鈥渘aively suppose the system is perfect,鈥 he said, citing gerrymandering, corporate money in politics and issues of systemic racism that have legitimately undermined faith in American institutions. 鈥淏ut our system is also the only thing that can fix itself. In other words, the elegance of the Constitution is that it creates ways to self heal if 鈥 and only if 鈥 people get involved.鈥

To facilitate this self-healing 鈥 to transform the government into something more effective, responsible and trustworthy 鈥 Buttigieg stressed the importance of backing up activism on social media and in the streets with voting at the polls, 鈥渢he moment of maximum power.鈥

He also highlighted the importance of supporting good reporting, necessary for combating dangerous misinformation that proliferates on social media.

鈥淎s mayor of South Bend, I had dustups with the local paper, because I would get mad at them if I didn鈥檛 think their coverage was fair,鈥 Buttigieg said. 鈥淏ut I also know they cared about making sure it was fair. And we would be so much worse off as a community if we didn鈥檛 have journalists.鈥

Buttigieg urged students not to underestimate the value of local involvement.

鈥淓ven the toughest issue you hear about nationally gets cashed out on a local level,鈥 he said. 鈥淭hat is certainly true with racial justice and police violence, but also issues of economic justice, housing, even climate. You know, in order to testify in front of Congress, you have to be invited. In order to speak out in a local decision-making process, you just show up. I鈥檝e seen votes go differently because of the testimony of high school students not even old enough to vote who compelled elected officials to think about things a little differently. One of the most powerful things in the world is a young person looking someone in a position of responsibility in the eyes and saying: 鈥榃hat are you doing to keep me safe?鈥 鈥

At the end of his talk, Buttigieg took questions from students in the audience that ranged in topic from the place of transgender folks in the military (people should be 鈥渁llowed to bring their whole selves to serve,鈥 he answered) to his future plans (that鈥檚 undecided, though more public service is likely).

Esha Shah, a sophomore world scholar and public policy and communication double major, asked the former mayor for his advice on finding common ground during a time of such terrible political polarization.

The key is getting outside of one鈥檚 information silo, Buttigieg said, by joining groups where different communities and perspectives overlap: a soccer team that welcomes Democrats and Republicans. A church that is multigenerational. Any club or organization that allows for trust-building encounters beyond one鈥檚 own concentric circle.

In the meantime, he told the students: Take heart. You鈥檙e already off to a great start.

鈥淧robably the greatest thing humanity has ever invented for the purpose of doing this, other than the city, is the university,鈥 Buttigieg said. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e in the middle of it. This is your best chance to engage with people who come at the world differently than you.鈥

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